The sun had barely dipped below the horizon when I pulled the curtains closed and sank into my favorite armchair, shoes kicked off and the day’s noise finally behind me. Deadlines, traffic, endless messages — it all clung to my shoulders like a weight I hadn’t noticed until I sat still. I wanted quiet, cool comfort in a glass. That’s when I walked into the kitchen and started mixing what would soon become my favorite slow-down ritual.
ME SLOW doesn’t focus on buzz or bravado. This drink comes to life when the world demands too much, offering a few stolen minutes of peace. The blend of coconut, citrus, soft fizz, and that final creamy swirl offers a kind of gentleness that feels earned. ME SLOW overly boozy or cloying — just mellow, calming, and quietly playful.
But this cocktail, made with purpose and just enough attention, became a little ceremony for unwinding. The kind where each step slows your pulse and each sip reminds you to exhale.
Short Description
ME SLOW is a layered cocktail combining tropical coconut rum, creamy Baileys, citrusy lime, and fizzy 7-Up with a cherry on top — the perfect drink for unwinding at the end of a long day.
Key Ingredients
- 1 oz Malibu Coconut Rum
- 1 oz Baileys Irish Cream
- 0.5 oz Triple Sec
- 4–6 oz 7-Up
- 0.75 oz Grenadine
- 0.75 oz Rose’s Lime Juice
- Cherry (for garnish)
- Ice (enough to fill a Collins glass)
Tools Needed
- Collins glass
- Bar spoon or cocktail stirrer
- Measuring jigger
- Long straw
Cooking Instructions
Step 1: Fill the Glass with Ice
Start with a tall Collins glass filled to the top with fresh ice. This helps keep each layer separate and your drink refreshingly cold.
Step 2: Pour the Base Liquids
Add the Malibu Coconut Rum, Triple Sec, Grenadine, and Rose’s Lime Juice. These ingredients form a tropical, citrusy base with hints of sweetness and tang.
Step 3: Stir Gently
Use a bar spoon to stir the mixture well so the flavors blend without disturbing the ice too much.
Step 4: Top with 7-Up
Slowly pour in the 7-Up until the glass is nearly full, leaving about an inch at the top to make room for the Baileys.
Step 5: Add the Baileys for a Layered Effect
Pour the Baileys Irish Cream slowly down the center of the drink. You’ll see it gently sink and swirl, creating a beautiful layered visual.
Step 6: Garnish and Serve
Drop in a cherry or place it on the rim for a playful touch. Insert a long straw, serve immediately, and enjoy every slow sip.
Why You’ll Love This Recipe
– Relaxing & Refreshing: Perfect for decompressing after a long day
– Balanced Flavors: Creamy, citrusy, sweet, and fizzy — all in harmony
– Easy to Make: No shaker needed, no fancy tools required
– Visually Appealing: That Baileys swirl? Gorgeous every time
– Great for Solo Sipping or Small Gatherings: Scales easily without fuss
Mistakes to Avoid & Solutions
Mistake 1: Adding Baileys too quickly
Solution: Always pour the Baileys slowly down the center of the drink. A fast pour can cause it to curdle or mix too much, ruining the layered look.
Mistake 2: Not stirring the base mixture well enough
Solution: Make sure to give the first mix (before the 7-Up) a proper stir so the citrus and liqueurs balance.
Mistake 3: Using warm soda
Solution: Chill your 7-Up beforehand. Warm soda flattens quickly and won’t keep the drink crisp.
Mistake 4: Overfilling the glass before the Baileys
Solution: Always leave a bit of space — about an inch — before pouring the cream liqueur.
Mistake 5: Skipping the garnish
Solution: That cherry adds not only color but a fun, sweet finish. Don’t skip it!
Serving and Pairing Suggestions
Serve ME SLOW:
– As a late-night wind-down drink, especially after a long week
– Alongside light appetizers like fruit skewers, cheese cubes, or chocolate-covered almonds
– At intimate gatherings — think book clubs, movie nights, or self-care evenings
– In a frosted glass for extra chill, or even over crushed ice for a slushier texture
Storage and Reheating Tips
This drink is best served fresh, but here are a few tips:
If prepping ahead: Mix the base (rum, Triple Sec, grenadine, lime juice) and store in a sealed jar in the fridge for up to 24 hours.
Don’t add Baileys or soda until serving time: to preserve the fizz and layered effect.
No reheating needed: just pour over ice, top with 7-Up, and finish with Baileys.
Discard leftovers: after a few hours, as the soda will go flat and the cream may separate.
FAQs
1. Can I substitute Baileys with another cream liqueur?
Yes! Try Kahlúa Cream or RumChata for a different but similar effect.
2. What if I don’t have Triple Sec?
Use another orange liqueur like Cointreau or Grand Marnier.
3. Is it okay to use diet 7-Up?
Absolutely. It slightly changes the sweetness but still works well.
4. Can I make this without alcohol?
Yes — skip the liquor and replace with coconut water, orange juice, and cream soda for a mocktail twist.
5. How do I keep the Baileys from mixing in completely?
Use a slow, steady pour right down the center and avoid stirring after adding it.
Tips & Tricks
Use crushed ice: for a slushier, cooler texture
Chill all ingredients ahead of time: to reduce dilution from melting ice
Try a cocktail layering spoon: to pour Baileys slowly for the best visual effect
Taste before adding Baileys: so you can adjust lime or grenadine balance
Use a metal straw: for a cooler sip every time
Recipe Variations
1. Tropical Twist
– Replace Triple Sec with pineapple juice
– Use coconut cream instead of Baileys for a piña colada vibe
– Add a splash of mango syrup for extra fruitiness
2. Mocha Coconut Version
– Swap Baileys for Kahlúa
– Use a splash of cold brew concentrate
– Add shaved chocolate on top before serving
3. Zesty Lime Refresher
– Double the Rose’s Lime Juice
– Skip the Baileys for a tart, clear version
– Add a lime wedge garnish and a dash of sea salt on the rim
Final Thoughts
Some drinks demand attention, flair, and a full crowd to appreciate them. This cocktail became part of my wind-down ritual. I find that layering each ingredient, one after another, feels like laying down the noise of the day, one layer at a time.
Gentle, a bit playful, and surprisingly comforting. The soft fizz of 7-Up, the creamy finish from Baileys, and the subtle coconut hint from Malibu come together in a way that feels like stepping outside the rush. Not an escape—just a well-earned pause. ME SLOW doesn’t rush you, and you shouldn’t rush it either. Sip slowly, breathe deeply, and let the tension fall away — one quiet moment at a time.

Ingredients
- 1 oz Malibu Coconut Rum
- 1 oz Baileys Irish Cream
- 0.5 oz Triple Sec
- 4–6 oz 7-Up
- 0.75 oz Grenadine
- 0.75 oz Rose’s Lime Juice
- Cherry (for garnish)
- Ice (enough to fill a Collins glass)
Instructions
Step 1. Fill the Glass with Ice: Start with a tall Collins glass filled to the top with fresh ice.
Step 2. Pour the Base Liquids: Add the Malibu Coconut Rum, Triple Sec, Grenadine, and Rose’s Lime Juice.
Step 3. Stir Gently: Use a bar spoon to stir the mixture well so the flavors blend without disturbing the ice too much.
Step 4. Top with 7-Up: Slowly pour in the 7-Up, leaving about an inch at the top to make room for the Baileys.
Step 5. Add the Baileys for a Layered Effect: Pour the Baileys Irish Cream slowly down the center of the drink.
Step 6. Garnish and Serve: Drop in a cherry or place it on the rim for a playful touch.